Monday, February 25, 2008

Love yourself, Love your family, Love others...

Last year in September, Hazizi's (Bean) father passed away just one day before Ramadhan which make us, me and other budak koleq (Hijjas, Koboi, Alan, Topek, John, Mad) took an emergency journey to Kemaman for a ziarah. Early this year, Afifuddin's father passed away but I could only convey Al-Fatihah from the distance. At that time, Hazizi was so strong to face the fact that he had lost his father in a 'controversial incidence' but when I hugged him brotherly when we met, I could feel the feeling of lost flowing inside his veins.
I began to wonder if ever I am ready to lose anyone in my life. One by one of my small family's faces slides inside my head with some non-family additional faces. Am I strong enough to lose one of them? Either death took us part or just plain destiny? For now, I feel that I am not yet ready for it but what should I do? The answer should be related with STOP TAKING LIFE FOR GRANTED. We have to be prepared by not wasting all the chances we have to appreciate each single soul around us especially our family members and if there is something we wish to reach for in our life, better work for it now, rather than later. For maybe we might not have another tomorrow.
YES..it is true that everyone of us will die. But it doesn't mean that I will just sit to wait for it. I will continue serving a role in this society doing good deeds (God's servant, research worker, social obligations, relationship) in order not to die regretting not doing it.
I will put my family first (especially my mom) because they are so important to me, far more important than money and worldly wealth. When some of the people out there prefer to see me as a THING, my family always regards me as LOVE. Cheers to Love..Cheers to family ties that bonds us....

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

nicely said..^^

Anonymous said...

yep2..同感