Zeitgeist...

Today, I revisited my old blogging place and somehow went through an article that I have written during last summer. Thought it is better to share it with all in this summer too. More importantly is that I personally have to practice more of what I have written. It seems that I have forgotten the genuine ways to value peoples around me.

8 Souvenirs..

Monday blues hits me again...Stucked in the lab in this hot summer generates an idea (ilham) for me to come out with these sentimental thoughts...8 souvenirs that we have 'inside'..give it away..give it away..

All this 8 souvenirs may not be on sale but it really matters to us all...U don't have to buy it too... but instead, u have to reward it to others..

1) Presence
Your presence on the side of your dearest ones either on critical times or just other ordinary days may alter the atmosphere around them..Presence does not only means by physically attending but could be conveyed via e-mail, letters, phone calls, quoting someone in your blog and short messages...Let your presence brought along happiness and best wishes to all...

2) Listen
Please refer 'Listen' by Beyonce..hehe..Not many people could really be a good listener..most of us prefer to critic and straight jump to conclusion..Please take time to listen..consider what you hear as classified, keep it in a sealed box stocked deep below in your heart..Look deeply into your companion's eyes and try to put yourself in whatever situation they are facing right now..apart from new experience, this also could be an escapism to you..for you to feel better that you are not in that current situation or for you to feel relieved that there is also another person facing the same dilemma as you are right now..Listen to others, it will not cost you much..just a portion of time, patience and humbleness needed..with a reward of unmatchable trust and friendship...

3) Silence
Same as words, silence could be both fatal and soothing..There is justification in silence. It could be also used to punish, irritate and to deliver seriousness...Silence could also be interpret as Love...by giving 'space'...sometimes it is too much to be at all time together...when advices were seen as nagging..it is time to stop..everybody needs a little time away...

4) Freedom
When you love somebody..give them wings to fly..provided you installed a tracking device at their feet so that you could track them back whenever they flew too high...Loving somebody does not means that you have the authority to own their life and make major decisions in everything...More than its initial meaning, giving freedom is to let the person you loved having chance to express their true potentials and make use of their opportunity to the uppermost level they could reach...

5) Beauty
Who could be luckier than having someone pretty or handsome as the one you loved...But more important than physically being pretty or handsome is to be pretty 'inside'...It could also be delivered by gifts, appearance and thoughts...

6) Positive Attitude
Unaware, we usually set a negative standard towards somebody without leaving an allowance for them to prove themselves more worthy that we thought of...Recount how many 'thanks' that you have said to your partner for always being there or to your friend to keep your weekends busy with activities and party... ;P

7) Giving way
Nobody is perfect..so give way..give chances..be considerate...be a man with respect, it will reflect your wisdom and virtue...

8) Smile
Smile do comes with an extraordinary power with it..a sincere smile could weaken a stubborn heart, could motivate someone tends to give up, refresh a tiring days...a smile is an international passport to love and friendship......

Give these souvenirs to others while you still have the ability and opportunity to do so....Somehow, you will feel being rewarded 'inside'.....Live a life, spread the love...