Saturday, April 19, 2008

Reason, season and lifetime...

In life, when your path crossed into someone else’s lane, it should not choked you speechless and turn you into somebody else. This is due to the fact that you may be destined by God to come into their life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Each which you will never knew until you end your chapter with them.

When you are into someone life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need they have expressed. Maybe you are their answered prayers or just plain Godsend. You have come to assist them through a difficulty, to provide them with guidance and support, to aid them physically, emotionally or spiritually. You are there for the reason they need you to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, the person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that their need has been met, their desires fulfilled, so your work is done. The prayer they sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Sometime you come into someone else’s life for a season, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. You bring them an experience of peace or make them laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season!

People said that lifetime relationships should teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

For all, thank you for giving me a chance to be part of your life either it is for a reason, a season or hopefully for an ongoing lifetime later on. I do really appreciate it and please forgive me if I have blown my chance to do things at my best during my tenure in your life. Hope I have made your life complete. Have a good day!!!

"It is always possible that ye dislike a thing which is good for ye, and that ye love a thing which is bad for ye. But Allah knoweth...and ye know not" (Al-Baqarah:216)

Don't write me off just yet...

When you are young, life could just change in a month, a week, a day and in an hour. So do how people feel towards you. It could just change...But deep inside, there is something that everybody needs to know...some things are not well describe via speech or words...some indications are unseen through visible eyes…it just happen...so be ready…and be bold to show what you want out of your life..either it’s going to be wonderful or miserable…we just have to accept the consequences…