As students, we often search what’s wrong with us and why we can’t be excellent in studies especially when it comes to bad exam results or failure in certain subject. Being just a research student in the beginning of a research life in Japan, I never ask you to believe in everything that I wrote in this article. It is because what I’ve gone through in these 23 years 1 month of life is not enough to endorse me to teach all about success and failure in life. However, allow me a chance to trigger your mind for a deep thinking and to share a little information that I have in this article. By the end, I do hope that you will be able to acquire at least a small chapter of worthy knowledge out of your busy daily life.
Subjectivity is the main element used to describe a successful life. To some of us, living in a simple happy family with foods to feed on everyday and good neighbours is already a success. To others, material wealth is the measure of earthly success. Quoting an old army pensioner that I knew and happens to be my grandfather, “Success is when you feel joy in everything you have achieved with the blessings of God and parents, to win the respect of intelligent people and being love by children, to master your own greed and lust, and to know that even one life has breath easier because you live.” This is what I believe as a principle key for him to have been successfully brought up his 5 children with his limited army salary, all becoming alumni of renowned universities with wonderful career nowadays. Whatever ways you defined success, it surely not far from the reality of leaving the world a bit better than the way we found it
Each of us knew that to achieve success is not an easy task. One has to really work hard for his goals. Success is not a destination but a journey. It is never final. In fact, it’s just a continuity of repeating, reinforcing and refining past achievements and conquering new challenges. A successful person is the person who dreams and works at his dream. Without a positive reaction and just a dream, one may become just another daydreamer and desires remain mere desires.
I’ve seen many among my friends that do not achieve much as they failed to plan for their daily routine at all so I try my best to plan each of my next days. The main subject is not to wait and not to react towards exigencies. The idea is not to type your assignment one day before the pass-up date or it may probably be a ‘cut and paste’ assignment from your friend’s work or the Internet. We must act according to our plan and priorities. Motivational Specialist also suggested that we plan for our next day’s commitment the night before we sleep.
Shortage of time is always a problem but for a successful people, the less time they have to work with, the more things they get done by wise management of time. As we could see, there are some real good role models that venture in almost all college projects, sports and voluntarily charity works during university life but yet still maintains his distinctions in every subject for every semester. Why this is not possible for us? Neither should we allow ‘lack of facilities’ or lack of ideal circumstances to cripple our efforts. We must do whatever we can with whatever resources we have so that we will be prepared for more challenging life after campus.
Adversities can be turned into opportunities. Dares could be doors. Failures are rehearsals for the next successful efforts. Mistakes can become stepping stones for future triumphs. Everyday, some things are being done that many has said cannot be done. Proton, Malaysia’s national car manufacturer was widely criticized in 1984 when Malaysia’s 4th Prime Minister, Tun Dr. Mahathir came out with this national car project. During that period of time, some of our own Malaysians doubting the ability of Malaysia to produce cars while still importing our own tooth picks from China. But now, the person who once criticized the idea is currently happily drove in the latest model of Proton Perdana to send his grandchildren to school and even advised his daughter to buy Proton Gen-2 that looks sporty and catchy. This is what we called life where twist and turns are all about.
Though life is tough and we all have limitations when some of us born with only average ability, we must also accomplish whatever anyone else can. There are thousands of world class eminent figures like the respectful founder of Matsushita Electric Industries Co. Ltd. (Panasonic) , Mr. Konosuke Matsushita (1894-1989) who start with nothing and born not to a wealthy family but succeeded greatly in life. We must do believe that an average ability with brilliant planning and strong determination can help ordinary people achieve extraordinary things in life. After all, God never gives us more responsibilities than what we are able to perform. For Muslims, clearly stated in Surath Al-Baqarah (2:286) of the Quran, “On no soul does Allah place a burden greater than it can bear”. So, do your best and leave the rest to God.
Failure is normal in life. Please do not see it as the end of the world because perfection is rarely attainable. Don’t waste our life in learning nothing and be a master of zero. Whatever you do, do well. There are no small roles, only small actors. The most admirable of people are those who did ordinary jobs in an extraordinary way. My last advise, do not be intoxicated by success, it is never final. Do not be defeated by failure, it is never fatal. My fellow friends, see you all in the Hall of Fame.